Home, Fit for Purpose.

Over the past century, the meaning of home has shifted. Once, it was simply shelter—a safe place to rest at the end of the day. Now it’s expected to deliver comfort, convenience, connection—and yes, often a little status too. Our homes have become reflections of our values, our hopes, and the story of how we want to live.

Lately, I’ve been reflecting on this in my own life. We live on two acres on the beautiful Mornington Peninsula, in an old Tudor-style home full of quirky charm. But maintaining the land and ageing house—while running a business, working full-time, and raising three daughters—has left us stretched thin.

So we made the difficult decision to sell. Not because we’ve fallen out of love with the house or its setting, but because it no longer fits the season we’re in. Our intention now is to simplify: to spend more time with our girls (while they still want to hang out with us), to be present, and to make space for ease and connection. When the place we call home stops supporting that, it’s time to listen.

A home should be a vessel that supports the life you want to live—not something that demands more than it gives back. Whether you’re buying, selling, extending, or renovating, the real question is: will this choice help you live well, or will it quietly work against you?

When our homes align with our values, we create more than beautiful spaces. We create room to breathe. Room to live. Room to love where we are. It’s never about the perfect home—it’s about a home that perfectly supports what matters most.

 

PS: If you’re standing at that crossroad—torn between what feels right and what makes sense—let’s share a Cuppa with Katie. Sometimes, a thoughtful chat is all it takes to see what kind of home truly fits your purpose.

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